Embrace the Challenge

I have not been writing much lately, as I seem to be going through a season of being challenged in recent months. If you are a person who likes to grow, you will understand the importance of being challenged in your life. From what I have learned, a person can only get so far doing things the way they have always done them. Eventually you will hit a plateau or the proverbial glass ceiling. I have found myself being challenged on multiple fronts recently, letting me know that the staleness I had been feeling in recent months was because I was plateauing. God has been challenging me in my way of thinking, in caring for my physical body, in my relationships, and in my spiritual life. None of this has been comfortable for me. I have spent some days feeling downright miserable, but I know that God has a plan and a purpose…He doesn’t waste any of our pain or discomfort.

In my way of thinking, I have been challenged in my initial response to situations that arise. I have a tendency to think that I have all of the solutions to stuff, you know, kind of a know-it-all. I have come to realize that I don’t have all of the answers. What I do have is a lot of opinions. Opinions are not a bad thing. In fact, we all have them, but having an opinion and constantly voicing that opinion are two different things. I have been challenged to hold my opinion until asked for it, unless it is in an area of direct influence in my life. In other words, if it’s not mine, I don’t need to speak on it, unless the person it does belong to asks for my thoughts. This may seem like common sense, but if you are a person with lots of opinions, this can be much more difficult than you think.

In caring for my physical body, I have been challenged in finding a balance between doing/consuming what is best for me versus what makes me feel good. Again, this may sound like common sense, but it is more difficult than it seems…at least for me. I love food, I love to cook it and eat it. I also enjoy exercising. I am one of those crazy people who loves to lift weights. On a side note, I hate cardio! I do it but I hate it…people who love cardio are just weird to me. Back to the point, I know that I can never out exercise a bad diet, but believe me, I have tried to do it. Balance and moderation are keys to healthy living, but I have struggled with both, to the point where God has been challenging to care for myself and take better care of the body He has given me. How can we accomplish what God designed us for if we are constantly in self-inflicted health battles?

In my relationships I have been challenged to view them in their proper context and for their actual purpose. God has put people in my life, in my sphere of influence, not because of what they can do for me, but because of what He can do through me in their lives and through them in my life. The chief purpose of all of our relationships is for God to be glorified through them, not for us to be satisfied through them. Our satisfaction should come from our relationship with the One we are trying to bring glory to. Often, we get that out of order and place unfair expectations on people. Consequently, we place a weight on them that they were never designed to carry.

In my spiritual life, I have been challenged to be more focused on spending time with God, reading my Bible and praying. I have been challenged to live like Christ, to love what He loves, to do what He would do, to pursue what He would pursue. Jesus’ ultimate purpose was to bring glory to the Father. Jesus died on the cross to bring glory to the Father. Jesus told His disciples that whatever they asked in His name, He would do so the Father would be glorified in the Son. Jesus’ entire purpose was to bring glory to God. If am I to live a Christ-like life, then that should be my purpose also, to bring glory to God. I need to live a God-centered life, not a people-centered life.

One overarching lesson that I have learned through all of this is that you get out what you put in. Again, this may sound like common sense to you, it is to me, but that doesn’t mean that I was living by it. In every area of life, in our thinking, in our physical bodies, in our relationships, in our finances, and in our spiritual lives, we get out what we put in. We cannot expect to fill ourselves with bad but get good in return. I challenge you to find a person that fills their head with bad stuff, but lives an emotionally healthy life. I challenge you to find a person who eats junk food all day, every day, but performs like a world-class athlete. I challenge you to find a successful marriage where the husband and wife cheat, don’t communicate, and argue all the time. I challenge you to find a spiritually mature person who doesn’t spend time with God and who is more focused on their personal life than they are on God. You get out what you put in. I think that is what Paul was telling the church at Philippi when he said, “Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me – practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.” (Philippians 4:8-9 ESV)

I appreciate being challenged, it causes me to evaluate where I am and determine how to get to where I want to be. It is also a necessary part of personal growth. For me, the areas I identified earlier are all hindrances to me moving to the next step in my journey. Don’t forsake the challenges in your life. Jesus said that God prunes every tree that bears fruit so it can bear more fruit (John 15:2). James said to count it all joy when we face various trials because those trials test our faith and produce patience in our lives (James 1:2-3). No one likes to be challenged, but don’t forsake the challenges in your life and don’t underestimate their value. They identify areas of potential growth for you. If you want to grow, if you want to accomplish all that you were put here to accomplish, embrace the challenges, keep your eyes focused on Jesus (not on your circumstances), and remember that you get out what you put in.


In Him,


What the World Needs Most

We live in a chaotic world. I think most would agree with that statement. If you watch the news for more than 20 seconds, you will quickly realize that things are a little out-of-sorts. It’s no wonder that millions of people suffer from depression and anxiety. It’s also no surprise that some take their own lives with the hope of finding a way of escape, not fully realizing the pain and hurt they leave in their wake. What does the world need most? Is it rest? We could all use a little rest, and not just physical rest, but mental and emotional rest too. Our lives are as hectic as they have been at any point in history. We are bombarded with things that affect, or even overwhelm, us mentally and emotionally on a daily basis. We could definitely use some rest.

What about peace and comfort? We see images of refugees around the world, people fleeing from their homes to escape war, human trafficking, starvation, and other atrocities. We are faced with death on a daily basis, some expected and some unexpected, some quietly and some widely publicized. Regardless of the way it occurs, death is a normal part of life, one with which we have regular encounters. We could definitely use some peace and comfort. Some would argue that all the world needs is love. Love covers a multitude of sins. Love could be the answer to all of our problems, they would say. The world would be a wonderful place if we could all just get along. I agree, the world would be much better if we all truly loved one another.

What if I told you that you could find all of these things in one place? What if I told you that Jesus is the answer to all of these needs? You would probably say, “I already know that!” I hope you do know that. I hope you do realize that Jesus is the only answer. Jesus said, “Come to me all you who labor and have heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.” Jesus will give you rest! Jesus is the prince of peace. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in ALL things through prayer, supplication, and giving of thanks, let your request be made known to God, and the peace of God will rule and reign in your heart through Christ Jesus our Lord.” Jesus will give you peace! Jesus also said, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends, John 15:13.” Jesus laid down His life for you and me. Jesus will give you love!

So, what does the world need most? The simple answer is Jesus, but the more precise answer is Jesus in you. The world needs Christians, who are full of the Holy Spirit, to live like Christ. The world needs us to be all that we were created and called to be. The person on the street who needs peace and comfort needs you and me to be Christ’s representatives to them. They need to experience the love of God through us. They need to find rest, peace, and comfort by having us choose to carry their burdens with them. They need to be able to meet the living God through us! How can we do that if we are the ones needing rest, peace, comfort, and love? How can we be the hands and feet of Jesus if we are always carrying the weight of our own world? We can’t! We have to first learn to cast our cares on Him, to be anxious for nothing, to let His peace rule and reign in our hearts, and to seek His kingdom first so He can take care of our needs. Then, and only then, will we be able to be what the world needs most, true disciples.

1 Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” Always be prepared! Preparation is not simply knowing the answers to their questions. Peter is not telling us to have a premade list of answers so we can offer a rebuttal when someone questions our faith. He is telling us to always be ready, be ready in how we live, be ready in what we know, be ready in who we are in Christ so we are able to gently and respectfully tell them about the hope in us and introduce them to the one who has given us this hope. But we can’t do this if we have allowed our circumstances to steal our hope. We can’t give what we don’t have. Does the world need Jesus? Absolutely! But the world also needs you and me to be willing and available vessels. Willing should define our attitude while available defines our lifestyle. The world needs us to be willing and available. What are you willing to do to make yourself available? Join me in this journey. My heart is definitely willing, but I know I need to make myself more available. For me, it will start by learning to be content and to cast my cares on the one who cares for me. What about you, where will you start?


In Him,


Why God, Why?

Sometimes we go through things in life where all we can say is, “Why God, Why?” I’ve heard people ask this question many times. Christians and non-Christians alike, tend to have moments where all you can say is, “why God, why? “ I have experienced these moments in my life, moments where it felt like I was doing everything I was supposed to do, but things were still going wrong. I’ve also had moment when I have treated others the way I wanted to be treated; you know…the whole Golden Rule thing, yet they still wronged me in some way. Moments like that make me want to ask, “why God, why?” I’ve seen bad things happen to good people. I’ve counseled families that lost a loved one unexpectedly, watched good parents cry over the choices their children have made, and witnessed little children in a battle for their lives as they war against the disease raging through their bodies. All of these things make me want to scream, “why God, why?

So, what if I screamed out at the top of my lungs, “Why God?” What would the outcome be? What if He answered me.? What if He didn’t answer me? Has God broken some promise by not answering me? Has he proven himself unfaithful by allowing these things to happen in our lives? I don’t believe so. The truth of the matter is that Jesus told us we would go through troubles in life. He told us we would have to face things that we did not want to face. You will not find a passage in the Bible that says bad things will never happen to good people. What you will find in Scripture is the answer for how we are to handle these things and the promise that we won’t have to go through it alone. Jesus, prior to His death, burial, and resurrection, told His disciple that in this world they would have trouble, but to be of good cheer because He had overcome the world. He was preparing them to face hard times. Notice that He did not say, “Now that you are my disciple, nothing bad will ever happen to you.” We are going to face hard times. We are going to have trouble in our lives. We are going to face situations that make us want to throw up our hands and yell, “WHY GOD, WHY?”

So why do we face those situations? The simple answer is that we live in a fallen, sinful world, full of fallen, sinful people. Often times, we find ourselves caught up in someone else’s sin. Hence the parents crying over their children’s choices, or the person who has just found out that their spouse is cheating on them. We have to prepare ourselves to face the troubles we are going to face on a regular basis. The Bible gives us some insight into how to do this. First, the Bible tells us, “do not be anxious about anything, but in ALL things, through prayer, supplication, and giving of thanks, let your request be made known to God,”(Philippians 4:6). Secondly, the Bible tells us to, “cast all of our anxieties on God because He cares for us,” (1 Peter 5:7). The key is to give it over to God…to let go of it and let God handle it. It is not easy, but it will help you if you can do it. I will admit, I struggle with implementing this myself.

A part of the problem for me personally, and I am guessing that I am not alone in this, is that I want the problems to be fixed on my timetable. I don’t want to go through trouble, especially the trouble I did not cause. I want to understand why things happen, and not just settle for the fact that stuff happens. I want to be able to give answers to the hurting and the grieving. I WANT TO BE IN CONTROL…and therein lies the frustration…it is the lack of control, the uncertainty, and the fear of realizing just how little control I actually have. But there is one thing I can control in every situation, my response. I can choose to respond out of fear and frustration. I can throw my hands up and ask, “why God, why?” I can fight against that which I cannot figure out OR I can choose to trust God. That “OR” in the middle of the last sentence means that I have options, I have a say in the matter. I can choose to believe that He is in control, that He has overcome the world, and that He has a plan and a purpose, even for my pain. I CAN CHOOSE! Remember, the Bible has told us how we are to handle bad situations; we get to choose how we respond.  God also makes us a promise in His word, that we don’t have to go through it alone. He has promised to never leave us nor forsake us. Even when we don’t feel Him near, He is there. Luke 12:7 tells us that God knows the number of hairs on our head…He cares about us that much. Surely our pain grieves Him but it has a purpose. We have to remember His sovereignty, and trust in His faithfulness. So, when we are tempted to yell our, “why God, why?” we need to remember that He is Lord of all, so we don’t need to be.

Instead of saying, “Why God,” try saying, “Lord, I trust You…even in the midst of this mess, I trust You. Even though I am dealing with a problem I did not create and receiving treatment I do not deserve, I trust You…Even though I’m hurting, I’m choosing to trust You. I might be frustrated and confused, but I am choosing to respond in faith instead of fear…I trust You and I”m giving it over to You” Cast all of your cares on Him because He cares for you!

Trust in the Lord with all of your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all of your ways, acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6


In Him,



Bloom Where You’re Planted

If you have been in or around church for any length of time, you have probably heard a preacher say, “You should bloom where you are planted.” That is basically preacher-speak for, “You should be able to grow, no matter where you are.” I have been in situations where I have questioned whether or not I was in the right place, or with the right people. And I am not just referring to church! I have run into this in the workplace and in school as well. Sometimes it just feels like the place you are in is the worst possible place for you, and all you can think about is how to get out. I know, I’ve been there a time or two.


A few weeks ago, I had the privilege of spending some time in California. My wife and I were attending a ministry conference that talked about various ways to help people get connected to the local church, and to help them bloom where they are planted. While in California, we took a trip to the coast, to a place called Crystal Cove, and spent some time just walking along the beach. Crystal Cove is a beautiful place. It is a picturesque beach at the bottom of a small cliff. It really does look like a picture from a post card. To get to the beach, you have to walk along a  trail that winds its way through a small park, down the side of the cliff, and on to the beach. While walking down the trail, we came across a cactus with a few flowers on it. I was immediately amazed at the way the bright yellow and pink flowers stood out against the landscape, which was mostly dry, and very monochromatic.


As I pondered what I was looking at, I had an epiphany of sorts: the cactus’ was blooming in the place where it was designed to bloom. I was so focused on the environment and the conditions around the cactus, that I neglected the Creator’s design of the cactus. I was amazed, but I should not have been because the cactus was doing what it was designed to do. I think the same is true of people. So often, we focus on the environment, and the conditions around us, and we forget all about the Creator’s design for us. The key to blooming where you are planted is to make sure you are doing what you were designed to do. Environments may seem harsh at times, and they may not appear to be conducive for growth, but I want to assure you, you can bloom right where you are planted.

In 1 Corinthians 3:6-7, the Apostle Paul says, “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth (ESV).” Paul planted and Apollos watered…in other words, Paul and Apollos provided the environment for the seed and the conditions around the seed, but God is the one who actually made the seed grow. We were created to be in relationship with God. We only grow when we are connected to God. Jesus talked about this in John 15 when He told us that He is the vine and we are the branches. He was illustrating our need to be connected to Him. You can be connected to God no matter what your environment may be. Your personal relationship with God is what brings about your growth. Every situation is an opportunity for you to learn: to learn your strengths, to recognize your areas for improvement, and most importantly, to learn to rely on God.

In my life, it has been the places that seemed like the worst places to be planted, that God used to bring about growth. It was the places that I wanted out of the most that God used to teach me to rely on Him and to show me the areas where I still needed to grow. Don’t despise the dry places in your life. James 1:2-3 says to count it all joy when you meet trials of various kinds, because the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. Steadfastness is our ability to stand firm and hold our ground, no matter what we may be facing. James goes on to say in verse 4 that we should let steadfastness have its full effect; that we may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. God uses the trials to build our faith and our ability to stand fast in the face of adversity. He uses those situations for our growth and for His glory. You can grow where you are planted! You can even produce great fruit and bloom in the worst of environments, but it will only happen if you are connected to the source of life and growth. So, my challenge for you is to stop focusing on the environment and the conditions around you and start focusing on the Creator and what He has created you to do. It starts and ends with our relationship with Him.  Are you blooming where you are planted? If not, get connected to the vine and get ready to produce some fruit!

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In Him,


When Family Disappoints…

There are times in life when it feels like nothing could hurt more than the pain caused by being disappointed by those we love. I have felt this pain personally and counseled others who have experienced it as well. We tend to be more emotionally vulnerable with our family members than with anyone else, and as a result, the disappointments cut that much deeper, the wounds sting that much longer. But how do we get over those hurts…how do we deal with the pain and put the pieces back together after the damage has been done? How do we move forward after we’ve been hurt and disappointed by family?

I have a few personal examples, but I’ve decided to keep the focus of this blog on the lessons I’ve learned rather than the specifics that led to the lessons. I made that decision, in large part, to protect the relationships involved, which is a good way to introduce you to the first lesson I learned: family matters should remain family matters. In this world of social media, it is easy to turn personal matters into public matters. With just a few clicks, we can expose our family business to people all over the world. The sad truth is that when we do this, we typically do it to get approval, to feel validated, to get people to understand our side of the story and join our team in the fight. It may feel good at that moment, as you count the likes and read the comments that say, “They were wrong for treating you that way,” but what have you gained by doing this? How do the likes and comments stop your hurting or mend the brokenness in your relationship? What do we hope to gain by revealing our private matters on a public forum? In most instances, exposing your private family matters on social media only vilifies the others involved and delays the healing process in your family. This is not to say that you should keep all matters to yourself. You should, by all means, seek wise counsel. Talk to a pastor, a counselor, or a close friend or family member for the purpose of gaining insight and perspective, not to gossip or gain an ally.

The second lesson I learned is that I should pursue reconciliation over being right. Now, you may not agree with me on this one, but hear me out. Relationships are like a bank that we can make deposits into and take withdrawals from. Every good thing that we do, every time that we put the relationship first, we are making a deposit into the relationship bank. The opposite is also true, every time we put our selfish interests over the relationship, or make a decision that is not in the best interest of the relationship, we are making a withdrawal. Each time I choose being right over being reconciled, I am saying that I am more important than us…I am choosing me over we, which causes a withdrawal from our relationship bank. What happens when the bank gets to zero? In marriages, the outcome is usually infidelity or divorce. In other family relationships it creates distance and distrust. In the interest of full disclosure, this relationship bank analogy is not my original thought, but I like it, so I am using it. Either way, reconciliation should be our goal when things go awry. There are no real winners in an argument; there is only victory when the relationship has been reconciled.

The last two lessons kind of go together: consider the source and fill it in with grace. Always consider the source (the other party) when you run into disappointment. Understand that some people may not be where you are mentally, emotionally, or in maturity. Take that into consideration when you are evaluating the wrong that was done to you. For instance, if my brother and my 14-year-old son both wrong me in the exact same way, I will handle the two situations differently. My brother is older than me and has more life experience and maturity than I do, so he should be more aware of the damage he is causing than my 14-year-old who has yet to have any real life experiences.

Fill it in with grace is a statement that we use on staff at the church I work at. We’ve made it a policy to assume the best when people wrong us and to fill in the gaps with grace because that is what Jesus does for us. This is especially true if you are a believer and your family member is not. If this is the scenario you find yourself in, I want you to remember two things: First, you are in the process of being sanctified by the Holy Spirit dwelling inside of you, your family member is not. Second, you have been reconciled to God, so you have been given the ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18). Your family member’s eternity is far more important than the wrong they did to you. Your reconciling with them, exercising forgiveness the way that God has forgiven you, may be what God uses to reconcile your family member to Himself.

Don’t get me wrong, I understand that some wounds are deep and some hurts are long lasting. I’m not making light of that in any way. What I am doing is challenging you, challenging myself, to be more like Christ. I’m not saying it’s easy, but I do believe it’s necessary. Let me make one caveat to all of this. I used reconciliation instead of forgiveness because I do believe that we should try to reconcile broken relationship with our family members. My caveat is this: Not in cases where you have been abused or where abuse is a possible outcome. In these cases, forgiveness is an option for you but reconciliation may not be the best choice because of the physical and emotional danger involved. In circumstances like this, pray for everyone involved. Ask God to protect you and to give you the grace and the strength that you need to heal. Ask God to mend your brokenness and to work on the other parties involved, but please do not put yourself or any of your loved ones in a dangerous situation by reconciling with an unrepentant, abusive individual. If you are currently in an abusive situation, call 9-1-1. Get the proper help that you need to get out of that situation!

As always, I hope this helps you as much as it has helped me.

In Him,


Is the Bible Still Relevant?

The Bible, the Word of God, some question its historical accuracy, others question its fallibility. Many question the need to live in accordance with it while others choose to live in spite of it. In the midst of all the questions, a great many have chosen to follow the Bible and adhere to its precepts. Its influence has endured over time, defying the barriers of language and overcoming the boundaries of culture and tradition. Some have died to preserve it, some enjoy freedom because of it, but the question for today is, is it still relevant?

To answer that, we have to first define just what we mean when we say relevant. Second, we need to define what the Bible really is. Relevant is defined as being appropriate for the current time, period, or circumstances. So, when we ask about the relevance of the Bible, we are asking whether or not it is appropriate for our current time and in our current circumstances. There are several aspects to the definition of the Bible. First, it is a written account of God’s plan for the redemption of fallen man. Every part of the Bible, every book written, every story told, and every person mentioned points toward a singular focal point, Jesus, the Lamb of God, slain to take away the sins of the world.

Second, the Bible is a manual for living a Godly life. Interwoven in the narrative of Jesus are principles and precepts that the children of God (the Nation of Israel in the Old Testament and Christians, beginning in the Book of Acts, in the New Testament) are to live by. These principles and precepts are given for two primary reasons: to teach God’s children how to relate to their heavenly Father and to provide God’s children a plan for living a life that brings glory to Him.

Finally, the Bible is one of the ways in which God has chosen to reveal Himself to man. God reveals Himself in two primary ways, general revelation and special revelation. General revelation is God revealing Himself to all mankind. The primary example of general revelation is all of Creation.



Psalm 19:1 says, “the heavens declare the glory of God, the skies proclaim the work of His hands,”(NIV).



God also reveals Himself through special revelation. Special revelation is God revealing Himself to specific people or groups of people. The best example of this is the Bible. This is summed up eloquently in one passage of Scripture, Hebrews 1:1-2. “Long ago God spoke many times and in many ways to our ancestors through the prophets. And now in these final days, He has spoken to us through His Son…”

So the Bible is God revealing Himself and His plan of redemption to man. In addition, it is man’s manual for living a Godly life. Is the Bible appropriate for our current time and circumstances? The short answer is a resounding yes! The longer answer is that fallen man is in need of redemption just as much today as he was 2000 years ago. As long as sin exists, the need for redemption will exist. When we question the relevance of the Bible, we are really questioning its authority, not its appropriateness. When we say, “Is the Bible relevant,” we are really saying, “Does the Bible have the right to tell me that I can’t live the way that I want to live or do the things I want to do?” The relevance or validity of the Bible has not changed, culture has changed; people have changed. In the postmodern society that we currently reside, absolute truth is an affront to what people hold most dear, the right to decide what is right.

I think the word relevance is a smokescreen, a way to hide what is really being questioned. Its easy to point to the parables and examples used in Scripture as proof of irrelevance because they were written by men who lived in a society that was much different than ours. The truth of the matter is that the nature of man has not changed, just the methods used to satisfy man’s nature. Saying that the Bible is not relevant is more palatable than saying that it has no authority because relevance, at its root, is a question of personal opinion (and who are you to tell me what to think), while authority is a question of fact, and that which we hold as fact cannot simply be questioned to be changed, it must be disproved.

So my question for you today is not do you think the Bible is still relevant, but does the Bible have authority in you life and in the lives of others? If your answer is yes, are you living proof of its authority? Think about it and let me know your thoughts. You can leave a comment here, email me at info@jnathanielblizzard.com, or talk to me on Facebook: facebook.com/jnblizzardministries/

In Him,

J Nathaniel

Winning the War Within

When I think about difficulties in life, I often think of the struggles I face from external factors. A few come to mind right away: financial issues, work problems, family drama, and health concerns. While it is true that we face external difficulties, one thing I have found in my own life is that the most difficult battle I face is the one within, the battle to do what’s right in my own heart. I know right from wrong and I know what the Word of God says about sin and its consequences, but I still find myself stuck in an internal conflict, more often than I’d like to admit. It is one thing to know what’s right but it’s a different thing to do what is right. We all have areas of weakness in our lives, areas where we need to rely on God’s grace and strength above our own. I have come to realize that I need to rely on God’s grace and strength in every area of my life, not just the so-called weak areas.

James 1:13-14 says, “Let no one say when he is tempted, ‘I am being tempted by God,’ for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire (ESV).” James, the Apostle, is talking about the war within. He provides us a little insight about the battles we face. First, he tells us that God is not the source of our temptation. Second, he tells us that we are the source of our own temptation. It is my own sin nature battling within me that causes the conflict. Third, he tells us that, in many cases, we can’t blame the devil. Now, he doesn’t directly say that, but he does say it by omission. It would have been fairly easy for James to point the finger at Satan if Satan was the primary source of our problem. The sad truth is that most of us do Satan’s work for him.

The good news is that Jesus gives us the answer to why we battle within and how to win the battle. In Matthew 26:41, Jesus says, “Keep watching and praying that you may not enter into temptation; the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak (NKJV).” We have this eternal battle because our spirit has been made alive by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, and our new, made-alive spirit is at war with our old sin nature (often referred to as “the flesh” in Scripture). So, that is the “why” behind the battle…now, let’s talk about how we can win these battles. I am going to give you 8 points that have helped me win the war within and I believe they will help you as well.

  1. Know your weakness. Understand the areas that you are most often tempted in and use God’s word to learn how to respond to them. Find Scriptures that strengthen you and use the Word as your weapon. (Hebrews 4:12)
  2. Make informed decision. An informed decision is one that not only looks at now but also looks at tomorrow. It is one that includes the consequences and not just the impulse of the moment. (Romans 6:23)
  3. Don’t allow your temptation to fester. When something tempts us, it is rare that the temptation starts at the exact moment we complete the act. It usually starts in our heart and mind long before we actually do it. As soon as the thoughts start to emerge, start speaking the Word. Allowing the thoughts to remain is what usually leads to sin. (Matthew 26:41)
  4. Call for help. Don’t be afraid to tell God that you are struggling and need His help. The truth of the matter is that He knows you are struggling, so he will not be shocked by what’s going on in your heart, but He will also not force Himself on you. You have to invite Him in to your situation. Never let the devil convince you that your situation is too “dirty” for God to get involved. Never let shame keep you from salvation. (Philippians 4:6)
  5. Use temptation as a training opportunity and a chance to put the devil in his place. When you initially feel tempted, resisting it shows God, and you, how much you have grown, and it shows the devil that he no longer has that stronghold in your life… but understand that this is only accomplished by submitting to God (giving the situation to Him) and using the Word of God as your weapon to defeat temptation. (James 4:7)
  6. Don’t make it easy. Don’t paint a bulls-eye on your chest. If you struggle with alcohol, don’t go to the bar. If you struggle with sex related things, don’t watch things or go to places that will fill your head with those thoughts. You don’t have to “face your fear or temptation” to prove something to God. Some temptations are unavoidable, but we need to make sure we control the ones we can control. (Matthew 26:41)
  7. Be Accountable. Even Jesus was tempted (yet without sin), so understand that it happens to everyone. As believers, it is important that we hold ourselves, and one another, accountable. If you see your brother or sister caught up in sin, hold them accountable and pray that they do the same for you. (Romans 14:1-15)
  8. Think on these things. (Philippians 4:8-9)Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things.       Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me – put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.

I’ve given you 8 points to help you win the war within. I know the list is not all encompassing, but it is a good place to start. I pray that God will use this blog to help you the way he has used it to help me. I will admit, I still get tempted and I still give in sometimes, but I understand God’s plan and purpose enough to know that He still loves me, forgives me, and wants to fulfill His purpose in my life. Never allow guilt and shame to keep you from God’s best. We all make mistakes. Romans 3:23 says that we all have sinned and fallen short of God’s glory, but the good news is that we serve a redeeming God. God wants to fight the war within with you; you don’t have to fight it alone. All you have to do is invite Him in. God loves you and He wants you to have a life full of righteousness, peace, and joy. He sent His Son to die for you and for me so we can have life in Him and have victory in the battles. Live victoriously in Jesus!


In Him,

J. Nathaniel Blizzard